FINDING YOUR PURPOSE MATTERS: MC BABBAN YARO HAS JOINED THE LEAD

SPREADING RUMORS ABOUT YOUR FRIENDS OR COWORKERS, CHANCES ARE; OTHERS MIGHT BE DOING THE SAME ON YOUR BEHALF:

Finding your purpose might sound like a betrayal. But having a sense of purpose has been linked up with some range factors. In our today'a modern society, we all tends to be focusing on setting and achieving individual goals, we less concern on creating meaningful connections with others, which are important for finding meaning and purpose in our lives.

MC BABBAN YARO & ALI NUHU

Where I'm from! bright light tend to be too hard to see. I came from an old settlement in Benue State. Wadata community to be precise, located at the State capital.

The sole aim of this article is to let you know how most of the people from my community interact and live their daily activities. When you come to my place, be ready to be deaf and dumb. 

Because, too many, gossip is their bread and butter. However, they still failed to understand that, the mere act of saying things whether or not they are true  behind someone’s back that you wouldn’t say to their face is negative. In any society, circle of friends or workplace, gossip leads to an unstable, unsafe, and disagreeable environment. May be, this could be one of the reason why some youths that emerged from the wadata community chooses to took that bold step to step out to make a names for themselves, in adding their quota towards national development.

Chief Kefas Wungak Ropshik & Prof Yemi Osibanjo

 

Aminu Adamu & Ochacho 1 of Africa

Abubakar Abdullahi Shu'aibu (Co-Founder Wadata TV-NG)

Shuaibu Yusuf Nayawo (Co-Founder Wadata TV-NG)

Digitalizing HumanityFind

"If we are honest, we have all involved in gossip in some ways or another. Whether we were talked about, actively listened to another person being slandered. Gossip has a way of sneaking itself into relationships. I'm a living witness, I have seen how one misguided conversation ruined l friendships,  separated family bonds, and even causing division in religion into sect".
It can be hard to avoid gossip, but simply refuse to get involved. If someone tries to reveal a dramatic story about a friend or coworker, decline and tell them you do rather not participate. While that may feel bad or odd, you will actually find that you feel lighter when not carrying the weight of secrets. And, when you are not talking about other people, you can feel more confident that others are keeping their lips zipped about you. And that is a reason to feel optimistic and to focus on chasing your goals.

•BENEFITS OF POSITIVE THOUGHT:

Having a positive thoughts naturally results in a more optimistic view of life. Rather than thinking, the grass is greener on the other side, so, stop feeling that you are already on the greener grass. Always think from the other boxes, you will see the positive side to most situations.

•DEAL WITH NEGATIVE THOUGHTS:

I knew that fighting negative thoughts will seems to be hard, but you will cope and bounce back to a more meaningful life when you learn how to ignore gossip. Not only that, but you can accept that things turned out the way they did, rather than being in denial. Those with a negative attitude will dwell and ruminate over negative thoughts, when they limit themselves to that particular ways of thinking. When you do away with negativity you will be more empathetic and understanding towards others. With a positive attitude, you will learn to see the thoughts behind people’s actions and why they may have acted the way they did. Rather than jumping to a harmful conclusion, you can understand where people may be coming from. And path's your way just like "Prophet Christian Shola" is pathing his way in God's ministry.

Prophet Christian Shola (Founder Solution Family Church Worldwide)