MY DARKEST SECRET

THE MAGICAL POWER OF CONFESSION:

 I have a secret that i have never wish to share with anyone. But knowing that confession transforms who you are. As we have seen, holding secrets for a long time bears you down. It makes you unhappy, isolated, and anxious. For this reasons; I have to tell my darkest secret to the world.

Aliko  Dangote,  C.E.O/Chairman  Group

Let’s dive into your human mind, soul and spirit, for only a moment, to retrieve that secret power of confession.

•CONFESSION is not only about opening up to the world. It’s also about confessing to ourselves. Without knowing who we , how are we to know what we want in life? When we are blind to our truest self, there’s no way of deciding what job to take, what friends to have, or what kind of love we need. 

DaN-Nayawo  With  The  DarkEST  Secret (Confession)

"You are the participants and    observant of your life"

Before i confess to you my darkest secret. Let me quickly remind  us of this; The examined life is the one that looks in on itself. To do otherwise would be like to play poker while seeing only half your hand. Each time we keep covered an aspect of ourselves; our sexuality, our wants, our ambition, we deny ourselves the tools to make the best decisions in our lives.

HRH, Alh Aminu Ado Bayero (Emir of Kano)

Confession shows us that there’s something to be learned from these dark, hidden moments in our past. It pulls up those repressed, repulsive secrets and asks, “what does this say about who I am?” Everything we do, the celebrated and public acts, as well as the hidden, shameful secrets was chosen by you. A good confession does not simply purge us of secrets, but also asks us what can be learned from them. It takes them, examines them, and draws conclusions about the motivations or deeper issues that led to their existence.

Town  Hall/Public  Confession

Dig up the fetid, festering lump of your shameful past and hold it before your mind’s eye. How heavy is it? What anxiety, fear, or panic lies at its core? How long can you hold it like this until you feel your heart gallop and your breath quicken?

It does not matter what the secret would be about; it could be about an abortion, poor finances, a hidden relationship, a hidden addiction, sexual orientation, a past crime, and so on. Keeping secrets is universal.

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THE MAGICAL POWER:
If secrets act as a kind of poison, then confession is the remedy or purification. When we confess to someone, we drop our pretenses, throw away the masks and costumes, and reveal who we are. A confession is an invitation to witness the self laid bare an act of tremendous courage that leaves us vulnerable and afraid. But it’s also hugely good for you. We replay and relive our secrets in an effort to be rid of them, but that just makes us unhappier and more anxious. Confession, then, is a necessary step in sweeping clean these blights of the mind.